What do you think...?

I understand it. I've experienced an isolated life myself where I had friends but always had trouble meeting guys and finding time for fun things, especially the past three years until I finally broke down because it was too much. The fact is that some people have life a lot easier than others. They meet the right person right away, find a job right away, know who they are and what they want right away and have friends and plenty of fun and exciting things to do right away. Other people don't. It takes more time and effort for anything to ever work out in their lives. I am one of the second people. I can tell you that we appreciate things more when they do work out though and it helps to make us into stronger, kinder people.